Sac Fly
Ramblings about faith, family, baseball, etc.
Wednesday, May 27, 2026
The Rickwood Classic
Tuesday, May 26, 2026
The Good Old Days
Being a young adult these days is tough, especially financially. I get it. But. Back in my day it wasn’t exactly a bowl of cherries.
Yes, houses were cheaper - but we weren’t earning much. When I finally landed a real job in 1985 my starting salary was $15000 - $1250 per month. Instead of traveling and buying a new car, I saved for a down payment for a house. I was single. Went on retreats with the youth and singles at my church. I was a frequent visitor to the numerous dollar theaters around town.
Ate 19 cent macaroni and cheese, sometimes with a can of Kroger tuna fish mixed in. Canned chili or peanut butter with saltine crackers. Canned BBQ. Frozen pizzas. When I ate out, it was the fast food dollar menu, the Pizza Inn buffet, or the Western Sizzlin potato bar. But at least 4 days a week I’d take my lunch to work - usually keeping a pack of hot dogs and buns in the fridge at work. I don't see many young people doing this.
Didn’t play golf. When I finally took up the game, I cobbled together used clubs from my in laws and played at the cheapest course in town - which I still do to this day. General admission tickets to Braves games.
This was before thrift stores became more prevalent. Not sure how I looked, but I rarely shopped for clothes. What I got for Christmas and my birthday usually got me by. For a couple of years my only jacket was the free windbreaker I received for coaching Mighty Mites. I wore that sucker out.
When we got married we spent a lot of time renovating the 40 year old house we’d bought, doing a good bit of the work ourselves. We rarely took vacations, thankful for the annual beach trip paid for by my in laws.
These days I see so many younger people not scrimping and saving, but going out to eat lunch 4-5 days a week, spending sometimes $15-20 a day. Arriving at work with a cup of expensive coffee. Going on lavish vacations. I’d hear about everything they’d spend money on, then them complain because they can’t afford a house. Some don’t seem interested in getting married, and even fewer are interested in having children. For sure it’s a different world.
Not talking about any one person in particular. Not just coworkers, but relatives, and some of the kids of friends and acquaintances.
Thankful and blessed that so far two of my three kids have gotten married, bought houses, and have children.
Monday, May 25, 2026
Memorial Day Hike
The plan is to hike the mountain every Saturday morning, stretching it out to go up Kennesaw, then continue over to Little Kennesaw Mountain and down the other side, then hike back - a total of 6.6 miles. It’ll be good for me to add in a different kind of training. Gotta get some hiking poles.
After the hike I stopped by the Goodwill just west of the Marietta Square, then across the street to McDonalds for a bacon egg & cheese biscuit. Then straight east back to the gym, for the sauna and treadmill.
Stopped by the house, then made an afternoon excursion. Stopped by three more thrift stores looking for those hiking poles. Got a frosty from Wendy’s and a BOGO chicken sandwiches from McDonald’s.
Drove up to Beaver Mazda in Cumming for a presentation on their new CS-5 SUV. Those who attend are entered to win a 3 year lease. I was the only one at the 2 pm presentation, but they said about 50 had attended throughout the day. The drawing is Friday.
After church yesterday we just hung around the house, watching golf and the Braves.
Sunday, May 24, 2026
The Courage to Dislike This Book
I recently finished "The Courage To Be Disliked". The book was written from the point of view that Christianity is no longer a valid lifestyle in the world today, it is a thing of the past. The book tries to justify the Japanese premise that high productivity leads to happiness, that there is no meaning to life other than that. With Japan's skyrocketing suicide rate, how is their God-less society working out for them?
I asked AI to summarize the book. First time I'd ever used AI to cmplete so complex a task. Here's what it said: The Courage to Be Disliked presents the ideas of Adlerian psychology, arguing that happiness comes from taking responsibility for one’s life, focusing on the present, and accepting that not everyone will like you. It challenges beliefs about inferiority and the need for others’ approval, and invites the reader to live more freely by contributing to community.
Format and premise: how to achieve happiness using Alfred Adler’s “individual psychology,” which emphasizes choice, purpose, and social connection over past causes like childhood events.
Key psychological ideas: “trauma does not exist” in a deterministic sense. People use past events as reasons to justify present choices, rather than being controlled by them. Feelings of inferiority are described as subjective interpretations; an “inferiority complex” becomes an excuse not to act. Life is reframed as non‑competitive rather than a constant comparison with others.
Interpersonal problems and “tasks”: the authors claim that virtually all problems are interpersonal relationship problems that arise from comparison, approval‑seeking, and power struggles. Each person is responsible for their own life tasks and emotions. Suffering comes from trying to control or solve what actually belongs to someone else.
Community feeling and contribution: a central goal of life is to gain a sense of belonging or “community,” seeing others as comrades rather than threats or competitors. A person finds value and happiness by contributing to others and the wider community through work, relationships, and everyday actions, rather than chasing status or recognition.
The “courage to be disliked”: real freedom means acting in line with your own convictions even when this leads some people to dislike you, since their opinions are their own “task,” not yours. Letting go of the desire for recognition and practicing self‑acceptance—acknowledging both strengths and limits as they are—allows one to live fully in the here and now instead of anxiously performing for others.
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Saturday, May 23, 2026
Caitlin Clark: Admirable?
Caitlin Clark is indeed great. People flock to see her. The straw that stirs the drink. Truly the goose that laid the golden egg. Sure there are other players who are talented, other stars. But what's with the effort to downplay Clark's accomplishments? Allowing the thugs in the league to beat Clark up, night after night? The NHL never allowed Wayne Gretzky to be beat up.
I will admit - Clark doesn't shy away from contact - she goes after it. The drives to the basket. The glare. She initiates contact, and complains to refs - almost incessantly. Not exactly the type player that I usually admire. But the type tough player that you'd think would earn the respect of the other players. Notice I didn't say peers.
Why do other players have Clark in such contempt? Such a bad look. Sure looks like jealousy. Would they rather play before fewer fans, get lower TV ratings, have less money for player salaries? From the outside, this contempt doesn't make sense. What changed that caused the sudden surge in WNBA popularity? Sure there are other new players coming into the league, joining a galaxy of established stars, but so many refuse to give Clark the credit that she so obviously is due.
When Tiger burst onto the golf scene, winning tournaments and majors and sucking up the attention and sponsorship revenue - how did the other players react? They didn't tear him down. They reveled in the higher purses. They worked on their games, raising themselves to higher levels in an effort to compete. Together, Tiger and his contemporaries reinvented an even greater PGA Tour. Would be nice if the WNBA could be able to do the same.
How will this end? Will the WNBA figure out that Caitlyn is a treasure? Will Clark's attitude change? I'm sure it's frustrating to get beat up so much. Seems like Clark and the league need to meet somewhere in the middle. For sure the WNBA is more watchable when Clark is playing, as opposed to when she is sitting on the sidelines.
Similarly, a website ranked Arch Manning as only the tenth best player in the country. Perhaps just an effort to get clicks. Arch is the odds on choice to win the Heisman, and will most probably be the number one overall pick in the 2027 NFL Draft.
Saw a list of great Great UGA baseball players. Of course all were from the last few years. Notable omissions: Derek Lilliquist. Jeff Treadway. Jeff Pyburn. Buck Belue. Dave Fleming. Chris Carpenter. and Glenn Davis. Spud Chandler was an AL MVP with the Yankees. He still owns the MLB record for the highest winning percentage in history.
Article: the time John Wilkes Booth’s brother saved the life of Abraham Lincoln’s son.
SHOHEI OHTANI [B-R Bio] is the only player to win more than one MVP unanimously. All four of Ohtani’s MVPs, 2021, 2023, 2024 & 2025, were unanimous. He is the only player to win a National League MVP after winning an American League MVP. Only he and Frank Robinson have won MVPs in both leagues. In 2025 Ohtani's three bBobblehead days were 02-Apr, 15-May, and 27 Aug.
Friday, May 22, 2026
The All Time All Madden Team
Denison on why The Late Show matters to our culture and our souls: "I think the show’s ending is relevant not because it was losing millions, or that CBS allegedly acted for political reasons, but for a different reason. As Elahe Izadi reports in the Washington Post, “We no longer choose from a handful of late-night hosts to get our fix of breezy celebrity interviews; there’s an endless supply of podcasts for that.” She quotes Robert Thompson, a Syracuse University professor of television and popular culture: "Like all broadcast television, it was cultural glue. We all fed from the same cultural trough. That is gone and only remains in a few pockets, and those pockets are falling one by one. When Colbert leaves, another one of those important pockets will have fallen".
Denison: "I’d like to suggest that losing such “cultural glue” is good for our culture. And for our souls".
Colbert, a professed Catholic and former Sunday School teacher, recently stirred controversy by opining a more Buddhist view of life after death.
CARL YASTRZEMSKI [SABR Bio] had more at-bats than any other left-handed major leaguer, with 11988. Only Pete Rose and Hank Aaron had more. Yaz was the first American Leaguer to earn a Gold Glove and win the batting title the same season, in 1963. He hit .321 and also led in hits (183), doubles (40), walks (95), OBP (.418), and made the first of 18 All-Star appearances. Yaz was the only player to collect a hit against Satchel Paige upon Paige's return to the majors after a 12-year absence. On 25-Sep-1965, Paige was brought in to open for the Kansas City Athletics. Paige pitched 3 shutout innings, and a double by Yaz in the first was the only hit. Read here.
Thursday, May 21, 2026
Wild Goose Chase
Note: when Will and I left to get the bed, the five leftover burgers were pushed back in the far corner of the countertop. Ceil was upstairs giving the girls a bath. When we got home at 930, Ceil had already cleaned the kitchen. It wasn't until Thursday evening when we figured out that Winnie had eaten all the burgers. Ugh.
Wednesday was the girl’s last day of school. They had the Waffle House truck provide food.
I just realized that I should have volunteered for the World Cup, but I would’ve had to apply almost a year ago. I’ll have to see what other big events are coming to town.
I played golf on Wednesday morning. Teed off at 6:43 am. Wore shorts for the first time this year.
1. Hit two drives off the first tee. Neither were pretty but both got good rolls. Hit three approach shots: two short of the green but one rolled up the hill to the right fringe. Chipped two of 3 onto the green.
2. Hit a 4 iron off the tee that stayed right. I hit a mulligan so good that I never found it. Must’ve flown the green and rolled into the woods past the 3rd tee. Hit three okay chips, onto the green. A couple of passable chips.
3. For the life of me I can't hit the ball straight on this hole. Pulled two left and one right. Two decent chips that didn't hold on the elevated green. Lost three balls on these last two holes.
4. Hit three good 6 irons off the tee. Due to the severe slope, all three rolled from right to left. Almost holed a chip.
5. Hit a great 4 iron onto the green, plus two others that got close. Great lag putt to inches. Par.
6. Hit three drives but only found one. From the fairway I hit three decent 4 irons. Then a couple of passable chips.
7. Hit a drive that faded right, but got a great bounce way up to the top of the hill - one of my best drives ever on this hole. Hit one of three fairway shots well. Chipped onto the green. Three leg putts didn't get as close to the hole as I would've liked.
8. Hit what I thought was a good drive. It sailed down the fairway and through the trees guarding the right side, down the hill on the 7th fairway - where the golfer playing behind me picked it up and tossed it to me. Chipped three balls, but none good. From the fringe I did chip two balls close to the hole.
9. Hit a good hybrid up the hill. Pitched three balls, but none close. From the right fringe I chipped two close. Finished around 8:13 am.
Question of the day: who's your favorite four-eyed athlete? I listed Freddie Freeman, Sonny Jackson, Jeff Burroughs, Satchel Paige, Bob Gibson, Tom House (below right), Kurt Rambis, Alex Karras (above), Rodrigo Blankenship, Bob Griese, Raymond Berry, Moses Malone - and BJ Upton.
