Final Jeopardy

A Final Jeopardy answer this week: 

 

ANSWER: Among the guests attending their anniversary party in 2005 celebrating 75 years were Dick Tracy, Dilbert & Dennis the Menace.

 

QUESTION:  WHO ARE BLONDIE & DAGWOOD?

 

The 75th anniversary of ‘Blondie’ is Sept. 8 [2005], but the comic will begin marking the milestone this Sunday… according to King Features Syndicate…. The anniversary story line will also be referenced in other comics — and not just King ones. King said the participating features will include ‘B.C.,’ ‘Beetle Bailey,’ ‘Bizarro,’ ‘Curtis,’ ‘Dick Tracy,’ ‘For Better or For Worse,’ ‘Garfield,’ ‘Gasoline Alley,’ ‘Hagar the Horrible,’ ‘Marvin,’ ‘Mother Goose & Grimm,’ ‘Mutts,’ ‘The Family Circus,’ ‘The Wizard of Id,’ and ‘Zits.’ … Meanwhile, Young will feature characters from these and other comics — including ‘Dennis the Menace’ and ‘Dilbert’ — in the ‘Blondie’ story line. Also, George and Laura Bush will appear in caricature. (Editor & Publisher)

 

I used to read the funny papers when I got a hard copy of the paper. Eventually I stopped reading because it took too much time. Beetle Baily. Blondie. Family Circus. Nancy and Sluggo. Snuffy Smith. BC. Garfield. I did like Steve Canyon and as a kid the Phantom. Dick Tracy was ok. I liked the gadgets but not the storyline. Doonesbury wasn’t that funny and too wordy. How many times have I mentioned Al Dodd modeled his Mark Trail character after my Uncle John Wayt?

 

The last time I saw Bob Marsh (not sure when, perhaps a wedding or funeral or Super Bowl party over two years ago) he raved about the Peachtree Pres Sunday School class, and rattled off several names like Hayes and Phillips. Jim’s son Trey played a little basketball at Lovett, but as a teenager didn’t come to many SPdL youth activities – mostly Sunday School. They had a daughter as well.

 

Whenever I used to talk to Bruce about North Point or Passion City Church he’d say housewives in their 40’s and 50’s liked to go there for the emotional worship experience. I’d always try to drag him along to see how the preaching was full of meat, Biblical and applicable, but Bruce would never go. Somewhere along the way he finally saw the light. A few weeks ago Bruce volunteered downtown at the Passion Conference, and loved it so much he posted a bunch of photos on Facebook.  

 

Sunday a short segment of Andy Stanley’s sermon went viral, where he told the over-45 set to not obsess over the things going on in the political arena, and instead focus on the God who is control of all things. The AJC posted it on Facebook and an AJC editor even mentioned it in his column - causing many to take Andy’s comment out of context (including Harold Hall’s son David). They thought he was delving too far into politics and telling people how to vote, which couldn’t have been further from what he actually said.

 

Monday: Nothing to report. Ceil cooked a good chili with ground beef, black beans, kidney beans, tomatoes, and chopped onions. All the ingredients lessened the impact of the beef, which was ok with me but not C and M. I’m the one who eats all the leftovers anyway. I like a little corn in my chili as well.

 

Watched The Middle and Last Man Standing. I’ve seen most of the episodes of The Middle now so it’s not as fun.  Also Jeopardy. I knew the final question which 2 of the 3 missed (the two youngsters – see above).  

 

Fat Tuesday is February 9th. For $19.99 at Fuddruckers you get a three pound burger, a pound of fries, and a bottomless Coke. If one person eats it in an hour they get two future meals and a T shirt. Ceil and I could eat for twenty bucks and take home leftovers.

 

Anna is busy with school projects, sorority projects, and her babysitting job. February 5-6 is parent’s weekend at her sorority. We’re going to the basketball game but not the gymnastics meet (I think).

 

They’re starting trivia back here at work. Movie trivia this week which I’m not great at, though I aced today’s questions. Next week I’ll be the quizmaster asking Super Bowl and TV questions.

 

I want to get to where I am walking/running an hour a day. When it warms up out of the 30’s.

Signs You are a Sensitive Person

Since four of the five members of my family could be classified as sensitive, the following article is most applicable.

Sensitive people get a bad rap. They make up 15-20% of the population. These people can experience sounds, feelings, and even the presence of other people much more intensely than the average person. Their strong emotions can be used to their benefit. They can communicate more effectively because they don’t just hear the words of others, but also catch on to subtleties in gesture and tone.

You think deeply. When life throws you a curve, you retreat into your shell, thinking through every aspect of what transpired before taking action. Small things (in your life and other people’s lives) can have a big impact on you. Less sensitive people often act without thinking – or caring.

You are detail-oriented. You see details others miss, and you aren’t content until you’ve dotted all the i’s and crossed all the t’s. This is a strength that is highly valuable in the right profession.

You take longer to reach decisions – since you are prone to dig deep beneath the surface. You can’t help but try to run every possible outcome through your head, often at the expense of the ticking clock.

You are crushed by bad decisions. When you finally make a decision and it turns out to be a poor choice, you take it much harder than most. This can slow down your decision-making process even more, as fear of making a bad decision is what slows you down in the first place.

You are emotionally reactive. When left to your own devices, you have a knee-jerk reaction to your feelings. You also have strong reactions to what others are going through. When your emotions come on strong it’s easy to let them hijack your behavior. The hard part is channeling your behavior into producing the behavior you want.

You take criticism harshly – because of your strong feelings and intense emotional reactions. Though you may overreact to criticism initially, you also have the tendency to think hard about things and explore them deeply (much better than insensitive people). In the long run your inability to shrug it off helps you grow and make appropriate changes, again, more so than insensitive people.

You work well in teams. Your unique ability to take other people’s feelings into account, weigh different aspects of multifaceted situations, and pay attention to the smaller details makes you extremely valuable in a team environment. This can backfire if you are asked to make the final decision, as you are better suited to offering input and analysis. In the real world this means you are less likely to receive credit for all you do.

You have great manners. Your heightened awareness of the emotions of others makes you highly conscientious. Unlike most insensitive people, you pay close attention to how your behavior affects other people and have the good manners to show for it. You also get particularly irked when other people are rude.

Open offices drive you crazy. Your sensitivity to other people, loud noises, and other stimuli makes it practically impossible for you to work effectively in an open office environment. You’re better off in a cube or working from home.

Like many things in life, being a highly sensitive person is both a blessing and a curse. It all comes down to what you make of it.

Dr. Travis Bradberry is the coauthor of the book Emotional Intelligence 2.0, and serves more than 75% of Fortune 500 companies. https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/signs-youre-highly-sensitive-person-dr-travis-bradberry

Top 10 Long-Lasting Cars

Ten cars that most often last their owners 200,000 miles or more, from Consumer Reports and www.ClarkHoward.com

 

Toyota Prius hybrid

Toyota Camry 4 cylinder

Honda Odyssey minivan

Honda Pilot large SUV

Toyota Corolla sedan

Honda Accord 4 cylinder

Honda CRV small SUV

Toyota Sienna minivan

Toyota Highlander large SUV

Honda Civic sedan (above)

 

Not sure of the order, whether the Prius or Civic is number one. Probably the Civic. If so we own two of the top four longest-lasting cars. In order of my favorites: Prius, Camry, Accord, Civic, CRV, Highlander, Pilot, Corolla, Odyssey, Sienna. I like sedans and don’t like minivans. Owners of most of these cars are probably more likely to take care of them and give them the needed service so they will last longer. Owners of cheapo Chevys and Fords probably wouldn’t service their cars as diligently, and owners of new luxury cars aren’t going to keep them for 200,000 miles.

 

Ever notice how every couple on HGTV’s Fixer Upper drives a large SUV or minivan? Never a sedan.

 

Remember Medieval Nights? Or is it Medieval Knights? Once a character in a movie had a job at one of those places, and she had to introduce herself “Good evening. I will be your serving wench.”

 

Thursday: same story. Worked until after six then hit seemingly every light on the way home. Stopped for gas at a Kroger. Still made decent time home. Ceil was off at a Johnson Ferry ladies event, but had left a grilled cheese sandwich that I dipped in tomato soup. M fixed himself two chicken soft tacos but only ate one, so I devoured the other. Worked on the computer and watched Seinfeld, Jeopardy, Big Bang, and The Middle.

 

Friday I left work at four, concerned there would be another traffic jam. No such thing – the roads were clear all the way home. People mentioned bad traffic earlier in the day, but many took the day off or left at noon. I made such good time that I stopped by the library and Goodwill. Got home and M wanted to go to his friend’s house in Town Lake, past Woodstock and almost to the new outlets on 575 – over 20 miles away. Again traffic was super light. Ceil rode along and we made it home in no time. Watched The Middle. Ceil cooked black beans.

 

Saturday I cleaned upstairs and did a little laundry. Later in the afternoon I drove Will’s Jeep out to pick up M. On the way back I gassed up the Jeep for $0.939 per gallon (I had a big BP discount). Ceil was out getting groceries so I watched Tech fall short at the end of the game AGAIN. C cooked chicken soft tacos. Watched The Book of Manning on ESPN Classic and a cheesy move on Hallmark or Lifetime.

 

Sunday we braved the cold at JFBC. Picked up Moes for M. Ceil drove him up to Cumming. Watched most all of Brady/Manning and the start of Palmer/Newton. I was ok with either team winning the AFC though Peyton was certainly the sentimental choice. Hopefully he will retire after the Super Bowl and Eli will win the Walter Payton NFL Man of the Year Award. Eli is one of three nominees, though outspoken Saint tight end Ben Watson (from UGA) would also be a good choice.  

 

Got up this morning and worked out, and even prayed. Was on track to leave for work extra early, then received a call from work needing something done immediately. Delayed me 20 minutes. Then when I got to work I had to figure out another problem. People don’t know the answer to things and neither do I. But I have to figure them out. I’ve got to stop letting things like that bother me so much.   

 

Last week I told the guys at work that NE wasn’t as strong as season’s past, and the Denver defense could carry the day. I would love it if they can slow down the Panthers. Peyton won’t turn the ball over, so if he can get in the end zone the Broncos might have a chance to win the game. That would be so good the silence Cam Newton. Sports Illustrated ran a picture of dozens of Panthers celebrating the Seahawk win and posing for a picture. Newton was nowhere to be seen, as he was off celebrating off on his own.

 

Co-worker Dialysis has missed 7 of 9 work days. He had to return to the hospital all weekend for a different malady. Not sure when he will return.

 

Not sure where the getaway car came from, or if they took any honeymoon photos. You’d think they would’ve. When we went to Bermuda we took pictures!

 

No SC trip this weekend due to weather. We have a commitment next Saturday night so hopefully we can put it off until February.

Wedding Video

A little longer than the one I posted on Facebook.

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Adrian Peterson < Herschel

Adrian Peterson is clearly one of the greatest running backs in NFL history, setting record after record. A lock for the Pro Football Hall of Fame. Peterson was amazing in college as well. How does he compare to Herschel Walker? Like many before him, Adrian falls short.

 

In college Walker outgained Peterson by 1,263 yards and ten touchdowns. Both only played three seasons.

 

Y.AP YD TD…HW YD TD

1 1937   15   1686   15

2 1154   14   1975   20

3 1148   13   1841   17

T 4239   42   5502   52

 

In their first nine professional seasons Walker outgained Peterson by 2,067 yards and 26 touchdowns. If you want to throw out Herschel’s USFL numbers and tack on the three NFL seasons when Herschel was older, Peterson did outgain Herschel by 1,229 yards and 21 touchdowns. Adrian is already contemplating retirement, so it’s doubtful he will ever approach the 18,537 NFL yards (much less the 25,214 professional yards) posted by Herschel.    

 

Y..…AP..….HWw/USFL…HW NFL

1 1609   13   2301   18   1574  14

2 1885   10   1867   21   1606  08

3 1819   18   2878   22   2019  07

4 1639   13   1574   14   1338  09

5 1109   13   1606   08   1085  09

6 2314   13   2019   07   1029  10

7 1437   11   1338   09   1348  10

8 0093   00   1085   09   1356  07

9 1707   11   1029   10   1028  07

13612 102 15679 118 12383 81

 

17851 144 21181 170 17885 133 college & pro

 

Herschel also bested Peterson for most yards, college and pro combined, for their first nine seasons (NFL-only or USFL/NFL combined, see above). All numbers above are combined rushing and receiving yards. This doesn’t take into account the more than 5,000 NFL return yards Herschel also gained. And unlike Walker, Peterson never ventured downfield on the punt coverage team.

 

Recently Herschel told Dan Patrick not to believe claims that Deion Sanders or Bo Jackson has run a 4.1 second 40 yard dash. Walker says he’s never ran a 4.1, and he’s never been beaten in a race with another football player.  http://www.danpatrick.com/2015/12/22/herschel-walker-says-no-player-ever-could-beat-him-in-race/

Depression

Depression affects over 20 million people every year. To be diagnosed with depression you have to feel extremely sad or have lost an interest in life, and you must experience 4 out of the 7 following symptoms nearly every day for at least two weeks.

1. Increase or decrease in weight or appetite without conscious dieting.

2. Insomnia or excessive sleeping.

3. Agitation or lethargy and difficulty getting out of bed.

4. Loss of energy and fatigue nearly every day.

5. Feelings of worthlessness or inappropriate guilt.

6. Difficulty concentrating, thinking, or making decisions.

7. Recurrent thoughts of suicide.

People with a selfless syndrome – a sense of self based on meeting others’ needs – are prone to depression.

Exercise regularly. Make friends.

Groomsmen

Finally – a photo of the groomsmen: Val, Chandler, Max, Joel, Harry, Kevin, Matthew, and Thomas.

 

Longtime UGA buddy Valentine Jurma (left) just interviewed to join Will at medical school in Augusta.

 

Sophomore Will was Chandler Machemehl’s RA his senior year. They took a spring break road trip to UVA, the Appalachian Trail, Washington DC, and Philadelphia. Chandler (back left) is a hoot, can crush a golf ball, and lives in Augusta with his bride of eleven months, Allison.

 

Max Diener returned from his honeymoon to be the substitute groomsman, escorting his bridesmaid bride Hannah down the aisle for the second time in eight days.

 

Best man Joel Norman (back middle) towers over the others. Joel is working his music career with Isaac, playing gigs around town and college towns like Auburn. He’s also a barista in Brookhaven.

 

Harrison Cloud was Will’s longtime friend at UGA, and roommate in their house on Springdale.

 

Kevin Brock (back right) taught Sunday School with Will at North Point, and graduated with Will and Joel from Living Science. In May he graduates from Auburn and begins work as an engineer north of Charlotte.

 

Seventeen year-old brother of the groom Matthew Murphy strikes a serious pose.

 

High school senior Thomas Gilbert (right) is Mary-Clayton’s brother, Anna’s former classmate at Living Science, and the target of Lilly Neibur’s accurate slingshot in 9th grade. Great hair.

 

NOTES: I love tater tots, cole slaw, and potato cakes. I am trying to stay away from them. Haven’t lost much weight yet but I’m drinking a lot of water. Worked out again this morning, so I have a streak going.

 

Tuesday: Left work at six. Traffic heavy, so it was after seven before I got home. Ceil cooked meatballs and tossed salad. I skipped the noodles and French bread. Watched Jeopardy and Fixer Upper, then drove to Alpharetta to fetch M at his worship service. Worked on my computer and went to bed.

 

Wednesday: M’s school in Alpharetta is closing at noon because they have so many students that live north of there. Guess I should’ve driven Will’s Jeep. Another slow evening. Leftover meatballs and spinach. Jeopardy, The Middle, Duck Dynasty, and the premiere of the Duck Dynasty spinoff Jep & Jessica.

Willie is goofy, Jase the tough guy, but Jep is the funniest. His wife Jessica is the prettiest and most personable. Willie’s wife Korie is smart/business oriented like Willie. Jase’s wife Missy sings the best but comes off as a nag (I probably would as well). Anyway, Jep and Jessica adopted a newborn baby. Perhaps they're doing their small part to bring the races together in a time of worsening racial tension, I don't know.

Thursday: Busy day. Also been working on a comparison of Adrian Peterson and Herschel Walker. Guess who gained more yards?

 

With snow to the north I’m worried about taking two cars to SC this weekend.

Staying Positive

Keeping a positive attitude is hard. Our brains are hard-wired to look out for and focus on threats. Pessimism is bad for your health. Studies show optimists are physically and psychologically healthier. Research shows a pessimists’ health declines rapidly with age. Optimists also perform better at their jobs. How to stay positive:

 

(1) SEPARATE FACT FROM FICTION. Write down any negative thoughts. Later evaluate the statements to see if they’re factual. A statement probably isn’t true if it includes words like never, always, worst, ever, etc. What you may think always happens actually only happens a small percentage of the time.

 

(2) IDENTIFY A POSITIVE. Consciously select something positive to think about, so you won’t have to think about negative things.

 

(3) CULTIVATE AN ATTITUDE OF GRATTITUDE. Studies show thankful people have better moods, energy, and less anxiety.  

 

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/mind-skills-gap-why-you-i-need-more-positive-dr-travis-bradberry

 

My old boss Steve Apollo called yesterday. We talked for 47 minutes, our first conversation in several years. He sounded great and is cancer free, but the chemo and bone marrow has weakened his immune system and left him in a lot of pain. Steve’s great attitude despite continued hardship over the years is a testimony to his close relationship with God and the guidelines above. Then we found out co-worker Randy (who used to live off Lindbergh across Piedmont from MARTA) – Monday morning his daughter in Seattle was murdered by her teenager daughter’s 19 year old boyfriend, in an argument over his drug problem. Randy, another fine example of a positive attitude, was on his way out to Seattle late yesterday.

 

Friday: worked until 6 pm then headed to Cumming to pick up M. Stopped by Kroger for cereal to snack on, found Special K Protein on sale. Also bought a nice warm sweater and an all-white pair of Ryan Moore’s True Linkswear golf shoes that I’ll probably sell.

 

Saturday I cleaned upstairs until after noon. Ceil cooked breakfast and brought it to me. Later she and M ran errands.

 

GT/VT – I watched most of the second half and saw the lead crumble in the last few minutes. Most I had watched all year, so I figured I jinxed them. GT had a chance at the end but the gave it to the wrong man – he didn’t even get off a shot. Same guy badly missed a similar chance last year.

 

REID: Tech basketball team looked BAD Sat. No 1,s 2,s or 3s - Looked like last year. Blew a 14 pt lead.  Louisville coming up Sat !!!

ME: Saturday evening we went to The Picture Show to see “Bridge of Spies” by Steven Spielberg with Tom Hanks. Based on the true story about the negotiations to return pilot Gary Powers to the US. Very good – you need to see it. Theater was crowded – we had to sit on the second row on the side.

Got home at ten and turned on the Cardinals Packers game. Great ending. Cards stuff Pack on fourth down and kick a field goal to go up seven. With 90 yards to go to tie, Rodgers converts on fourth down after pass interference on third down isn’t called. With two seconds left Rodgers is forced left and wings a prayer into the end zone that’s ruled a bobbling catch. Touchdown, tie game, and overtime. Rodgers demands a re-toss when the coin inexplicably does not flip. On the second play Palmer finds a wide open Fitzgerald, who races 75 yards to the Packer five. Then an inside pass to Fitzgerald for the touch – Cards win. Al Michaels, Chris Collinsworth, and Bob Costas were almost speechless. Was after midnight before I went to bed.

 

Johnson Ferry Sunday morning. Then C went to Passion City Church. I stopped by Kroger and Dollar Tree then ran M to Roswell to apply for a job. C cooked stew and took M to church. I took a nap and watch a little Panthers/Seahawks and more of the Broncos/Steelers. Not sure if Peyton has enough left in the tank to make a Super Bowl run but with the Broncos great defense and the Patriots struggles, Manning might have a chance. Not sure the Cards can beat the Panthers but I wish they would. After the game Cam Newton snatched a flag from a Seahawks fan. He’ll never win sportsman of the year.

 

Drove downtown to pick up M. Got back at 10:30 and went to bed.

 

Monday: Not much to report. Worked until six last night and went home. Ceil grilled chicken tenders and tossed a salad. Tried to get M to do his homework. Watched The Middle and went to bed. Couldn’t sleep.

 

Both Monday and Tuesday I left home early for work but got stuck in traffic more than usual. Thought I would arrive earlier than I did.

 

Caroline is taking Anna to California for spring break. No Hargreaves at the wedding – I don’t think Caroline was there. Robert and Trina had RSVP’d but I think she had to stay in Florida when the youngest daughter got sick. Several similar stories are coming through.  

 

I noticed at the Tacueria on Howell Mill the parking lot is all torn up – probably hurting their business. People have to park in the lot over by Yeah Burger and walk, or cross the street from Anthropologie.

 

Had my annual review this morning from my “new” boss Garrett, a guy I’ve known for years. Back in the 90’s we used to run the Peachtree together. Received high marks. It’s hard to complain about being overworked when I see all the work Garrett does, without ever complaining. The man is a machine. Funny the shows he watches, like Survivor. Later I had a conference call and an emergency, so it’s been a blur all day. I finally got up and worked out this morning, so I’ll probably go to bed early tonight.

Marvin Hudson: MLB Umpire

Since I have exhausted my wedding material: Interesting Hot Stove meeting last Wednesday night with 21 in attendance – the most since Phil Neikro spoke, I am told. Several people I hadn’t met. Two high school baseball coaches. I had met the North Forsyth coach last month, and as early arrivers had a chance to chat. The South Forsyth coach had pitched in the Pirates organization, getting a cup of coffee in the bigs.

 

A local college student big Johnny knew has landed a gig as a writer for a baseball website. Dillon Cloud has written four articles and recently attended the Winter Meetings in Nashville. After the meeting I chatted with him about some of the tricks of the trade. He was interested to know about my blog. He deemed himself a baseball nerd, so he was in the right company.

 

A man and his wife arrived just before the meeting began. Nondescript except for some nice shoes. Turned out to be MLB umpire Marvin Hudson. Looks younger than his 51 years. He told his story: Marietta High after Dale Ellis. Piedmont College, where the elderly Johnny Mize would stop by to give batting tips. After graduation he was denied a loan, so instead of opening a business he went into officiating and umpiring. He paid his dues in the minors, and told several bizarre stories about games in the Dominican Republic, of lights going out in the park and the like. Umpiring there gave him much cred later in the majors.

 

Marvin was the plate umpire in the famous game where Jim Joyce blew the penultimate call in the Detroit Tigers perfect game, and he was happy to share the story in detail. The play wouldn’t have been close had the rookie pitcher Amando Galarraga let the second baseman make the play. Immediately afterwards the Tigers were irate, though later they would comfort the umpire. Sensing trouble, after the next out Marvin and the second base ump escorted Joyce off the field.

In the umpires room Joyce couldn’t sit. He paced for three hours. The Tigers beatwriter, a friend, knocked on the door offering to serve as the pool reporter for the rest of the press. Joyce let all the reporters in, then first gave a statement before asking for questions. At that point the press didn’t have any questions. Instead they exited respectfully. Tigers GM Dave Dombrowski and manager Jim Leyland came in to offer comfort. Joyce wouldn’t sit, have a beer, or smoke. Finally Joyce wanted “to talk to the kid” and Galarraga was summoned. The young pitcher came in and gave Joyce a big hug.

The next day when the umpires took the field, Marvin and his two fellow crew members surrounded Joyce, expecting the worst. Instead 95% of the fans stood and applauded. Then at home plate Galarraga came out to deliver Detroit’s lineup. This brought tears to Joyce’s eyes, and again they hugged. In the days and weeks following the call the crew was on the alert. On a Friday night in Houston a teenager in the stands was pointing a laser light at several players. Unbeknownst to Marvin, after the game Joyce received an envelope from the home office reporting several death threats to Joyce. The next day Joyce snuck into the crew’s SUV, though Marvin didn’t know why Joyce was acting so weirdly. When Marvin was told he broke out in laughter, angering Joyce all the more.

 

This past season Marvin was the spotlight after tossing MVP Bryce Harper from a game. Harper was being obstinate about stepping in and out of the batter’s box. Harper mouthed off, and eventually Marvin threw him out of the game. When describing Harper’s childish behavior Marvin paused, looked at the younger reporter in attendance, and asked  “You’re not going to write about this, are you?” He spoke about taking the Number 7 train with his crew to Shea Stadium shortly after John Rocker was in the news. The crew spread out in different seats, and a Mets fan seated next to him pointed to the crew chief and whispered to Marvin “I think that’s the umpire!” Marvin whispered that he thought the guy was right, and encouraged him to get the ump’s autograph. Others heard the buzz, and when the train stopped at the station the crew chief was surrounded by autograph seekers. The chief loved the attention, and told the fans they should get the rest of the crew’s autographs as well – except Marvin and the rest of the crew had bolted away.  

 

Once in Detroit hall of fame announcer Ernie Harwell, a native of Washington Georgia, came down to meet the umps. When he got to Marvin, Harwell exclaimed “So you’re the one!” Harwell had learned that Marvin was now a resident of the small town east of Athens. Marvin’s wife runs an eye clinic in Washington.

 

Marvin was the plate umpire in the NLDS when Smoltz faced Clemens. I was at that game. Brad Ausmus was the Astros catcher. Brian McCann came up to bat. The pitching coach game out. Marvin heard him say to keep the ball away from McCann, to not give him anything to hit. Clemens threw the pitch right down the middle, a watermelon. McCann turned on it, launching it over 400 feet into the right-centerfield stands. Ausmus and Hudson stood up to watch. Marvin quipped “Didn’t keep it away from him, did he?” Ausmus said “Nope.”

 

After the meeting Marvin and his wife stayed to talk. She proudly mentioned that Marvin had been ordinated as a minister and had conducted his first wedding, of a minor league umpire. Host Johnny (also an ordained minister) had Marvin autograph a chest protector (above). I noticed the Bible verse.

Later given the chance I clumsily asked Marvin about his faith. Hudson brightened, eager to share. He’s been a Christian all his life but acknowledged being on the roller coaster. While not a polished speaker, he was thankful most of the few speaking opportunities he had often led to even more chances to share about his relationship with Christ. Marvin said that during one particular speaking engagement a struggled for words to say. He had never opened shared about his faith before, but he came to a point in his speech where he didn’t know what to say. It seemed like God gave Marvin the words, so Hudson said them. After that breakthrough it was easier for Marvin to share. Decent guy, that Marvin.

Attendees

Wedding attendees, as best I can tell:

 

1 Acone Katie Seattle WA bridesmaid piano

2 Alexanderson Richard Angie

1 Anello Zack Johns Creek GA

1 Arps Kara Johns Creek GA

 

3 Baily Lee Lynn Lucy Marietta GA

5 Barnes David Beth Curt Luke Meghan

1 Barron Jordan ensemble soloist TX

1 Bates Preston East Cobb GA

1 Beckett Meghan

1 Blass Annie Marietta GA

1 Block Brandon ensemble OK

1 Boardingham Angel Star OK bridesmaid

4 Broadwell Myron Dawn Emily Rachel VA

1 Brock Kevin groomsman Auburn AL

3 Brown Mason Linda Avian violin

3 Burnett Mark Lisa Shelby

 

1 Carrell Laura (Zane) Monroe NC

1 Cavallaro Gabe

2 Chapman Bill Betsy Ellijay GA

2 Christopher Joe Hali Lake

1 Cloud Harrison groomsman Athens GA

1 Cook Darby

1 Cumbee Brittany

2 Cushing Dan Molly East Cobb GA

 

1 Daly Savannah

2 Davis Lance Penny Woodstock GA

2 Diener Max Hannah TX groomsman bridesmaid

1 Drone Brett Atlanta GA

 

6 Earhart Lee Nancy Martha Dixon Mary Lee Daniel GA

1 Ellan Laura

4 Ellis David Susan Leila Ashley

 

2 Falis Steve Sarah East Cobb GA

4 Farmer Tom Cindy Thomas Cathryn

3 Fowler Jerry Janet Leslie

1 Frieden Kayla CO bridesmaid

 

1 Garner Gay

2 George Isaac & fiancé Woodstock GA soloist

3 George Josiah Nicki baby Woodstock GA

2 Gilbert Clay Rosalind Athens GA

2 Gilbert Danny Mary Beth Maria CA

2 Gilbert James Maxine

1 Gilbert Patrick Atlanta GA

4 Gilbert Tom Regina Anna Thomas Cartersville GA

4 Gilbert Walter Carolyn East Cobb GA

2 Greco David Linda

 

4 Hall Reid Noelle Andrew Nathan East Cobb GA

3 Hamilton Marty Carolyn Olivia

3 Hanson Denise Elizabeth Emily Woodstock GA

2 Head Jim Judy

2 Heda Ragan Sam Monroe NC

1 Hill Elin Decatur GA

1 Hoffer DJ Dunwoody GA

3 Hufstetler Kevin Myra Brock Cartersville GA

2 Hui Nathan Emily

4 Hurt David Mary Haley Margaret Milton GA

 

1 Johnson Grace

2 Jordan Ansley Jenny

1 Jurma Valentine groomsman

 

1 Kohagen Andrew ensemble OK

 

1 Lane Bryant

3 Latham Jim Mary Leslie

4 Lepkofker Todd Angela Charlton Ryun

1 Levy Madison ensemble OK

2 Lindsey Andy Christy

 

2 Machemehl Chandler wife Augusta GA groomsman

1 Mayfield Ben

2 McDonald Greg Mary Beth

2 Middleton Lennie Corinne Miami FL

1 Miller Cameron

3 Miller Doris Rocky Debra SC

4 Miller Rusty Kelly Katherine Jordan SC

3 Moore Parker Audrey Cohen

2 Morse Kevin Sara Nashville TN

1 Morton Emily Athens GA

2 Murphy Bill Marion Macon GA

4 Murphy Dave Ceil Anna Matthew East Cobb GA

2 Murphy Will Mary-Clayton OK

 

6 Norman Becky Willis David Beth Joel Charles GA

2 Norton Bert Meghan Ella Frances (flower girl) GA

5 Norton Wayne Joanne SC

1 Nowak Patrick ensemble OK

1 Nuckolls Andrew

 

1 O’Toole Taylor ensemble OK

1 Owens Michelle ensemble OK

 

2 Peake Andrew Michelle

2 Perkins Dave Allison

2 Pryor Allen Beth

 

2 Rajecki David date Woodstock GA

2 Randle DR Brandi

1 Reece Aubrey ensemble OK

2 Reeves Robbie Julie

3 Rollins Dic Dac Debbie Grant IN

5 Rollins Phil Teresa Zane Beau Victoria SC

1 Rose Tanner ensemble OK

2 Ross Anthony Amanda

1 Ross Nancy OK ensemble OK

3 Rucker Donald Tanya Brooke

1 Russell Margaret Ann

 

1 Sangrey Carter

2 Smith Al Loretta

3 Smith Andrea Abigail Grace

2 Smith Brad Nita Lake Sinclair GA

1 Steedman Taylor ensemble OK

4 Stevenson Jim Amy Spencer Faith

1 Stipe Sarah bridesmaid GA

2 Switzer Cliff Cindy Woodstock GA

 

1 Tate Addie

2 Terrell Joy Nathan mandolin

2 Tillman Matthew Abby bridesmaid GA

1 Tofa Andy ensemble OK

 

4 Watkins Steve Beth Bethany John GA

2 Weinzetl Austin Christina

2 Whitaker Reid Edie Atlanta GA

5 Whitney Glen Raquel James Gabrielle Rebecca

2 Wilkening Ben Beth GA

1 Williams Alicia (DJ) Dunwoody GA

1 Wright Daisy ensemble OK

245 total with at least ten last minute no-shows. From the time Indigo Falls was selected as the location and capacity determined it was a constant struggle to get down to that number. We all hated to leave anyone out and we know of more than several who were – even some supposedly “non-negotiables.” Some close friends were not able to be invited that I did learn about until after the wedding. Will said there were more friends and family invited on his side than on Mary-Clayton’s. It was their wedding, and they worked long and hard together to make things work. They did a great job.   

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Bridesmaids Kayla, Katie, Anna Gilbert, my Anna, Angel, and Hannah pose beside the lake.

Mary-Clayton poses in the lobby of the Kennesaw Embassy Suites next to the fountain showing her picture. Photo by Sarah.

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