Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Christmas Letter 2008
In April the whole family joined Will on his five-day Living Science Spring Expedition to Jekyll Island. The weather was chilly, but the kids enjoyed checking out all the sea creatures on the beach. We took a boat to Cumberland Island to see the ruins and wild horses, and toured the St. Simons Island Lighthouse.
The July Miller-family Myrtle Beach vacation was another fun time. It was the first year Anna and Matthew ventured out into the bigger surf, meaning Dave also spent lots of time in the water!
IThe big trip came in August, when we flew out to San Francisco for a week. Yosemite National Park was overwhelmingly beautiful, the sequoias huge. We hit Fisherman’s Wharf, Chinatown, Golden Gate Park, the University of California in Berkeley, Napa Valley, and saw the seal rocks in the Pacific. Barry Bonds broke Hank Aaron’s record on a Tuesday, and three days later we saw him hit number 758 against the Pirates.
Matthew turned nine, and continues to entertain our family with his creativity and humor. He still loves to play with Playmobil and make videos, and is looking forward to taking classes at Living Science. His favorite coach selected him again for baseball, and Matthew responded with his best season yet, consistently collecting extra-base hits and making key plays in the field, helping them win another championship.
Ballet became just one of Anna’s activities. Now eleven, she enjoyed sitting with the older Living Science girls on the spring expedition, then began 5th grade there in the fall. She helped Ceil repaint and remodel her room, and has begun cooking as well. Visiting Chinatown was her favorite part of the San Francisco trip. She snapped all kinds of pictures on her new digital camera, and with Matthew was all over the Webkins craze.
Will (14) became even more involved at Living Science, taking several classes and training to become a Servant Leader. He took up basketball for the first time, playing on a competitive home-school team with several good friends. In baseball Will had perhaps his best year ever, playing 80 games & leading all three teams in most hitting and pitching categories. Against one tough team he struck out eleven in 4-2/3 innings. After Thanksgiving he paintballed & attended the Clemson/Carolina game in Columbia, then the Chick-fil-A Bowl on New Year’s Eve.
Ceil squeezed in time for many of her favorite things: a women’s Beth Moore Bible Study, a knitting class, cooking for others, snapping pictures, & sewing Halloween costumes and Christmas presents. Home-school preparation and running the kids around takes up so much time, but she was still able to keep up with girlfriends near and far. She & Will still help in the 4-year old class at North Point.
Dave enjoyed coaching Will in the spring, especially making out batting orders and positioning players on defense. He work tripped to Birmingham and Orlando. In Houston he visited a college roommate and saw the Astros play. He ran his 20th Peachtree Road Race with Will and the Broadwell men, visiting from Virginia. In October he saw Georgia Tech beat Miami, in one of the last games ever played in the Orange Bowl. The next weekend he chaperoned Will’s Living Science Senior Retreat to Tybee Island and Savannah. One hobby is compiling family events and photos at www.sacrificefly.blogspot.com
We were fortunate to be able to complete several home-maintenance projects, though there’s always more to do. In this age of activity, we struggled to balance events with time with family and friends. We were also able to squeeze in cherished time at home as well.
Bird
Saturday, December 15, 2007
Another Loss to North Cobb
Will played well, grabbing four rebounds and playing aggressive defense. With most of the players on the left side of the court, the shot bounced of the rim to Will, almost alone on the other side of the lane. He grabbed the rebound and put it right back up, making the basket for his only two points in the game.
North Cobb only led by 4 after the first quarter. Despite a flurry of turnovers early in the second quarter to swell the lead, Flight hung tough and only trailed by ten at the half. In the third quarter North Cobb turned on the full-court press again, and Flight only scored one basket the rest of the game. Late in the third quarter North Cobb began putting in substitutes, and in the fourth quarter Flight did the same.
DJ scored six, but hit the boards hard, grabbing ten rebounds before sitting out the last quarter. He had a nice blocked shot.
Connor was called for his 4th foul late in the first half, and fouled out early in the fourth quarter. This game he penetrated more, and finished with 6 points and 4 rebounds.
Josh had 3 points, 7 rebounds, and a steal.
Isaac returned from a back injury and sparked the team, making both his foul shots. He had 8 rebounds and a steal.
Holt only had 2 boards and a steal, and sat the fourth quarter.
Joel got the start and had a rebound and steal.
Jonathan enjoyed the aggressive game, playing a lot of minutes.
The game was over in an hour, and the Varsity needed a scorekeeper, so Will and I stuck around to avoid traffic. North Cobb had played a tough Greater Gwinnett team the night before, so they let a few of their top players sit out. NCCS Coach Motta let his entire JV team play in the varsity game. Flight lost 62 - 40.
NC had a 6’10” center that led both teams in scoring, with all his points coming under the basket. Willis did an admirable job defending him, but he wasn’t always around to make the play. With the big man on the bench in the fourth quarter, Willis sat and Flight went with a smaller lineup.
Willis had 6 points, 8 rebounds, and 2 steals.
Josiah scored 9, with 5 boards, 3 steals, and an assist.
Walker scored 9 as well, with 3 rebounds and a steal.
Ben had 7 points & one rebound, assist, & a spectacular blocked shot…before fouling out.
DJ scored 5, with 4 rebounds, 2 steals, and a block.
David N scored 4, with 2 rebounds and a steal.
NC…23…39…59…62
FL…10….17…22…40
How It Went
Next Monday the new GM reports, as my immediate boss. SE VP wants to involve the GM in any other decisions, which is understandable, and said we would address these issues together then. When I welcomed him last week I outlined my qualifications, and he seemed impressed. Now that I think about it, I think I’ll float them a couple of questions.
The “Life Well Spent” book we’ve been reading really dovetails with the way things have worked out for me. Though I’m not as purposeful as I should be with career matters, I believe God has taken good care of our family.
This morning Ceil asked how she should pray about the meeting. I had really been wrestling with all this stuff the last 24 hours, so I could have told Ceil any number of things running around in my head. My heart’s desire is for God to provide for our family through me, and in a way where I’m somewhat flexible time-wise, so I can be home and participate in watching our family grow.
The main thing he wanted to discuss with me today was next year’s SAP computer conversion. I had been tapped to spend NINE straight weeks in Little Rock learning and helping, followed by 9 weeks of long hours doing the same thing here…from February into June. Learning SAP inside-and-out would be beneficial in some ways, but it wouldn’t enhance my position with the company. The one SAP trainer based in Atlanta was just laid off.
From the way he approached it, it was evident he didn’t want me to go to Little Rock. He said what I’m currently doing is more important, particularly as our business increases these next few months. Travel can be fun in shorter doses, but Ceil would have a hard time, without a break for such an extended period. So this is good news!
I could wave my hands and demand more power, authority, money, and attention. It doesn’t seem like now is God’s time for that. Positions may open up that I’m qualified for, but they’d mean more hours without more money. They know my value from previous projects we’ve worked on…he’s more of a nuts and bolts guy like me, as opposed to a big talker. The new GM’s background is similar to mine, so hopefully we’ll work well together.
Like you guys, our family is not swimming with money. Matthew certainly needs a scholastic change…Veritas could be that answer to prayer. We need to review everything we do, as we’ll have many financial decisions to make for 2008…like getting Ceil’s teeth fixed. I’m confident God will provide.
December Baseball
It’s ok when half the bowl teams lose their last game…but they shouldn’t advance like the teams on winning streaks. This Sunday night I took a lot of notes comparing Tim Teabow to Darren McFadden, that I’ll eventually type up and organize.
Sports Bits
Think either of the two Josh’s will re-sign next year? The Hawks can match any offer, right? Smith continues to improve, but still has a ways to go maturity-wise. Still might be the best option to retain him. Childress is mature, but may want to return to California. I watched one game where they needed him to run the point, and he didn’t do that bad.
What quality coach would want to coach the Falcons? Perhaps a career NFL assistant, perhaps minority, who has been passed over for other jobs. Like Eugene Robinson, the interim. Can’t blame Petrino considering the hand he was dealt, and for realizing that the NFL wasn’t what it was cracked up to be. What do you tell your boss when he asks if you’re committed to you job? I see what you mean, that it could be best for the Falcons. I’m not that confident in Rich McKay these days. Pro sports personnel is tough these days…money, personality, character all factor in…not just can you play!
I was told today I don’t have to go to Little Rock for 9 straight weeks in Feb/March, which wouldn’t be greatly beneficial. Still a tiny chance I could go.
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Will Plays With the Varsity
Rematch Replay
More Pieces to the Puzzle
More on NCCS: They must see themselves as the northwest suburban Atlanta equivalent of Southwest Atlanta Christian Academy, the basketball powerhouse that recently produced NBA players Dwight Howard and Javaris Crittenton. Nothing wrong with recruiting players and playing a strong schedule, or hiring competitive coaches. Giving kids opportunities to get college educations is a noble goal.
The varsity boys coach is the brother of Ohio State’s head basketball coach, Thad Matta. Having such college contacts help recruit blue-chippers: two of the varsity boys have already signed letters of intent, one with Georgia and another with Indiana. I was told that during last Saturday’s blowout varsity game the varsity coach got so out of line that the referees told the athletic director he was close to being thrown out.
Matta’s nephew plays on the JV. Last Saturday he made about half of his three-point attempts, and this Saturday in made three or four straight three-pointers in the second quarter to put the game out of reach. He's skinny, athletic kid with an unorthodox jump shot, featuring a low release. He has undoubtedly been raised in a competitive environment…at one point Saturday he grabbed a loose ball, but Connor made a good play to also take hold of the ball a split second later. Jump ball. But before the ref could whistle the call the Matta boy turned with the ball, making it appear the slighter Connor was going over Matta’s back for the ball. When a foul wasn’t called, the boy grimaced and look to his JV coach for support.
This past week North Cobb traveled to Chattanooga to play the Mccallie School, the private boarding school where Ted Turner graduated. The JVs lost by five points, though the varsity won. With this tough game looming on their schedule, it makes more sense now why North Cobb played a hard pressing game last Saturday in preparation.
In both games the young JV coach remained animated and loudly worked the referees, regardless of the score. In his view whatever DJ did was illegal: walking, fouling, etc. Halfway through the fourth quarter DJ earned his fourth foul. Seconds later a North Cobb player went in for a layup. Sitting at the scorer’s table I had the same view as the coach. DJ was in the area, but the offensive player quite obviously moved not to the basket, but sideways into DJ. The ref made the correct call; an offensive foul. The coach erupted, and angrily berated the ref the rest of the game. At the time of the foul Flight was losing by 29 points.
Sunday, December 09, 2007
Say "Merry Christmas"
Appeared to be right about Andruw. The AJC says they was a good chance he would’ve accepted arbitration, which would've been too expensive for the Braves, even with their bigger budget.
All day Monday through Friday I stare at my work email, so it’s more convenient. I sometimes give out my personal email in some situations, but actually right now my computer is messed up and I can’t send an email from that account. I can get busy and forget to check it for days at a time, but rarely do I get anything important on it. I have a third email that I use to enter contests with…so I get a lot of junk there.
Been working to correct one of the biggest screw-ups I have ever seen, though it wasn’t my fault. They just named my new boss, so the next few weeks are going to be interesting. Ever since my old direct boss moved to Florida in July 2006 there hasn’t been a hands-on boss on site until now. Our organizational structure is changing somewhat, and I have a meeting Monday morning with my current boss which may help define what my future duties will be.
The massive Chicago operation is being dismantled, and many in that corporate office are being let go. Things are much different here in Norcross, where jobs could be added. Still, a few people have been let go here in other departments. I have no idea what’s going to happen to me…I could get a promotion or be laid off. Should know more on Monday. People a chatting up a storm.
Will’s JV plays that team that blew them out tomorrow. Later in the day the Varsity plays an inexperienced team, so the coach is letting Will and other JV players suit up and play. Eventually we’ll get up our Christmas decorations. We’ll see about cards…at the very least I’ve started a Christmas letter that I’ll post here.
Tuesday, December 04, 2007
Editorial Comment
It’s admirable to start up a Christian school, and great to have the facilities and resources to offer an extensive athletics program. I did not see the younger middle school games to see the racial makeup to the teams. I would not be surprised if they were only made up of regular students, based on the fact that Flight won all the games. The JV and Varsity (boys in particular) had several talented basketball players. Had they been recruited, and/or offered scholarships? The private education given to these young men would be an excellent ministry for the school…though the lesson learned from having starters full-court press, fast-break, and shoot three-pointers while up by 40 points is lost on me.
I laughed when I saw that Flight plays North Cobb twice more in the next week. More fun!
I want everyone to play by the same rules. God, why isn't life fair? Perhaps it's ok if everyone isn't just like me.
Fulfilling Weekend
At eight Saturday morning I took Joel, Will, and Abby way over to John’s Creek for a science study session, then got some housework done before Anna’s recital.
Though I’ve seen their Grinch performance the last several years, this time while sitting in the back with John Fulton’s sisters it was heartwarming to see all the older girls looking on behind us, cheering on their younger compatriots. Anna and her class started in the back passing out candy canes during one early number, and she got to see her friends sitting with me. Each year Anna’s group gets more and more stage time.
After her last dance I slipped out and drove almost to Acworth to Will’s game. Since I didn’t know if I’d be on time due to the recital, someone else was lined up to keep score. Lots of people to talk to.
Ceil Christmas shopped that afternoon and evening. Will stayed for the varsity games and ate with the Normans.
Sunday’s “It’s Personal” message was good. Andy shared a list of possible reasons why parents might only have 2 kids instead of three…money, space, time, etc. Then he brought his smiling 11-year old daughter onstage to help as the audience come up with more reasons. Before starting he mentioned that she was their third child. While all the reasons on the previous list were relevant, once the Stanley’s found out they were having a third child those reasons didn’t matter any more…it was personal. Andy’s point was that becoming a Christian doesn’t really have to do with having questions about God answered. Instead most adults only become Christians because of something that happens to them personally.
Will and Anna went up to play with the whiffleball crowd. Matthew didn’t stay, so I played with him in the yard before running errands. Then Ceil ran up to the Avenue while I helped Anna on her Science Project. Killer display board. Looks like a parent helped, but all I did was help arrange colored paper and tape them down. While editing her speech I added a few jokes.
Frantic Monday Computer "Repair"
Will wants to play varsity High school baseball next spring for Crown, the home school team that’s currently his rival in basketball. Christian, his baseball teammate this fall, the coach’s son and whiffleball buddy, played last year on the Crown baseball team. The email said they were having a batting practice yesterday at 6 pm!
I quickly left work and rushed home. I called Will at home and had him look up on the internet for directions to the batting cage. He called the Maioccos for a ride but just missed them. Will couldn’t find the directions, and when I got home just before six he had shut off the computer. When we tried to get back on the internet, it wouldn’t work. I hooked up my laptop and that wouldn’t get the internet either. The phone book wasn’t helping, and I was getting frantic.
Spent the rest of the evening trying to fix the computer, updating virus programs and spyware, deleting old programs. I eventually got it to work and was proud of myself, because that’s not my cup of tea. Then this morning I found out AT&T’s entire internet system had been down!
It is great that Clemson is in the Peach Bowl. Ceil’s brother said it would be better than the Gator. The Peach Bowl officials said in particular they were happy to get Clemson, even more so than Auburn. Clemson has been in 3 of the top 7 Peach Bowls, attendance-wise. Auburn will be tough…they started slow but beat Florida, and almost beat LSU. That was funny all the Clemson stuff Will had on his Christmas list…I got him a Tech shirt recently, but he hasn’t worn it much.
Pats Come Back to Beat Ravens
Like the Falcons, you can tell the difference between a winning and losing team…though I think Petrino is doing better at changing the losing culture than Mora did.
After the PAT I changed the channel during the commercial, and missed the excitement at the end…but my co-worker told me about that.
Interesting Don Shula was there…were they honoring him for his time in Baltimore? My old boss is a lifetime Dolphins fan, and from him I know that Shula and the 72 Dolphins really want to remain the only unbeaten team. The Pats still have to play the Steelers, Dolphins, and Giants. NE isn’t playing as good as they were, so it’ll be an interesting December. I like both them and the Colts. Amazing that Peyton recently passed Unitas and Montana on the all-time passing list.
Well, Herschel was named the fourth best all-time college football player…not too bad. Barry Sanders will be in the top three, and perhaps Tommy Frazier, who won two national championships.
Saturday, December 01, 2007
Kicks
Hugs Around the Tree
Airborn Express Package Delivery

Ceil caught Anna in the air today during her ballet recital. As I sat watching the performance I realized we should've invited more people. I'm amazed that people take time out to go to these things...as busy as I am, that's not what I think about.
More on the recital, our busy weekend, and editorial comments on Will's game in the next day or two.
Blow-out Defeat
When I arrived at the North Cobb gym I saw a familiar face. Jim, the head groundskeeper at Mt. Paran baseball, was the ticket-taker. He had seen Will earlier. During the baseball season when I had told Jim that Will was missing a baseball game for a basketball retreat, he deemed the excuse as worthy. The Flight JV girls led in the third quarter 22 - 1. Abby was running up and down the court, getting more playing time than usual with the big lead. With eight JV girls dressed out, the best three were on the bench. Cobb made several more foul shots in the fourth quarter as well as one basket, but Flight won something like 25 - 9.
Jim said that all four Flight teams had won that day: the middle-school boys and girls, the 6th-grade boys, and now the girls. Little Charles said he scored 13, Abby's brother Spencer sheepishly admitted to "only" scoring four. As the JV boys teams warmed up, a ball bounced into the stands. I picked it up and tossed it back to the small long-haired player wthout thought. Moments later my friend Jim came up the steps. His son Clay used to play baseball with Will...he was the long-haired boy I hadn't recognized.
The North Cobb Christian School is located in northern Kennesaw and has great facilities, including a nice football field. Banners hung from the gym rafters (I noticed championships in basketball, soccer, tennis, and track dating back to 2000). Another banner touted the school mission statement, which included knowing God’s Word and going out in the world with it.
Jonathan, Will's long-time Living Science classmate, was tapped as the fifth starter, but was soon taken out as it became apparent the game would be tough. Under constant defensive pressure Flight did a good job working the ball downcourt, but it seemed like two of every three possessions resulted in a turnover. Connor and DJ made several clutch shots to keep the game within reach. DJ closed out the first-quarter scoring with a long three-pointer to keep the deficit to 5 points.
Cobb extended the lead in the second-quarter, first to 10 points, then to 15. Will was next off the bench and played a majority of the quarter. Flight battled, not quite letting the game get out of hand. Later Clay said at halftime in the locker-room the young coach "railed" on Cobb’s defense of DJ, ultimately assigning his best defender to cover him in the third quarter. It didn't slow down DJ much, as he most often drove to the basket, drawing many fouls.
The aggressive Cobb starters would act shocked if an obvious foul was called on them. To their credit they did run several plays that resulted in easy layups, but that was mostly after the will of the Flight team had long been broken. Well into the third quarter Cobb's lead reached 30 points. Still they pressed, fast-breaked, and pumped three-pointers. Had the shoe been on the other foot Coach H would've never run up the score, instead running the clock and emptying his bench. Merifully he emptied the Flight bench, leaving Will and Connor on the court with Joel, Max, and Jonathan.
As the fourth quarter began the pressing and three-pointers continued. Joel showed some flustration while committing a pushing foul. Only when the lead reached 40 points with 4 minutes remaining in the game did the Cobb coach insert Clay, his eighth player. It took him another minute to put in his ninth. Clay took a couple of shots. I'd wished he made his first shot, to show the coach he should've been put in earlier. Will finished the game with as many minutes played as anyone. After the game both teams prayed together at centercourt.
Both the Flight varsity girls and boys were blown out as well. As defending state champs, Cherokee may have tough games coming up, and needed to practice their press under game conditions. There are numerous reasons why players got more or less playing time…injuries, conditioning, discipline, missed practices, not being ready to play, sickness, etc. I recognize this is high school sports as opposed to a rec league. The young coach could’ve been caught up in the game. But as a first-time visitor to North Cobb Christian School, I left with the impression their Mission Statement banner was just for show.




