At lunch I stopped by the bank. Took longer than expected. Then to a store where I found a cool cotton Grizzlies shirt for the summer. Light blue button up, that you leave untucked. When I returned to work I discovered a monolith on my desk.
Have received two Christmas cards. Both the cards we've received at home had a family photo, but still it's the message that's key. One has Christmas greetings with Bible verses. Another from a guy that grew up in church. Says "Merry" and other Christmasy words, but no mention of Christmas or Jesus. Was just handed a card from a company in Nashville, with a large MERRY CHRISTMAS on the front. Most cards from companies don't mention Christmas.
Of course I haven't seen our card yet. Anna was working on it last night, after meeting a friend at Beetlecat. Matthew brought them out a couple of dishes.
Ceil got a small Christmas tree from Whole Foods. Small group with two other guys, in a big room. Got home at 8:30. Watched a couple more Seinfeld episodes from season two.
Dan and Karen Toholsky's daughter Lila got married this past Saturday.
Trying to decide where to eat tonight and tomorrow night. Several deals. Ruby Tuesday has a $5 burger & tots on Tuesdays. Wendy's has two free burgers with purchase. Got a free shake coupon for Steak & Shake. Can get a triple burger and fries for $4.00.
This weekend I cleaned out my inbox, and typed up several lists I'd been wanting to internalize. Posted two yesterday.
1. Insecure head movements. Appear engaged but not to extreme. Excessive head-nodding = not management material....
2. Being overly expressive. Be sure to smile, but don't go overboard. Don't force enthusiasm. One exclamation point per email (or social media post) maximum.
3. Fidgeting. Less movement is better. Don't tap your feet or play with your pen.
4. Shallow breathing portrays stress. Before an interaction take deep breaths and stay present. Speak clearly. .
5. Poor posture. Don't slouch or prop your feet up. That's very unprofessional. Sit up straight. Lean forward. Stand tall with your feet spread apart.
Phrases that make you more likeable (on video calls)
1. Can you say that again? I want to write it down.
2. Thanks for asking.
3. Sorry I interrupted you. Please continue.
4. I'd like your input on something.
5. I know I shouldn't complain…but note how the "but"s are all complaining about something in my life, not about the other person: "…it's been a tough week and I could use an ear" or " …don't get me wrong I love my kids, but…" or "…I hit a wall today so if I ramble or don't make sense, please give me a pass" or "…it's been a tough week and I could use an ear".
6. Lately I've been sick of (video), but this has been fun.
7. Do you mind if we turn the video off?
Studies show while much changes about you over time: attitudes, mindsets, values, appearance, health, opinions, passions, hobbies - your identity (your sense of self) stays the same.
Don't say "thanks in advance." It's rude and abrupt. Some will say "well I'm going to use it anyway. Those people are rude and abrupt. Use one of these instead.
1. Thanks. That's what I use most of the time. Simple and effective, without presumption. Not hostile or expectant. But don't overuse, or use when there's nothing to be thankful for.
2. Thanks for your consideration.
3. Thanks for your attention. Asks for a reply without presumption.
4. Thanks for your help. More gracious. But make sure the favor will occur.
5. Thanks for (something specific).
6. I look forward to hearing from you. Polite, straightforward, and self-assured.
When faced with indecision, don't overthink it. The uncertainty of the future shouldn't freeze us, but free us. Spontaneous decisions are often as good as (if not better) than carefully planned and considered ones.
Lazy Betty
Kevin Rathbun Steak
Chops
King & Duke
Marcel Steakhouse West Midtown
Bacchanalia
Bones
Beetlecat
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