Habits of Quiet Winners, by Tim Denning. Not sure who he is, but he's got a blue check by his name. More so than usual, I edited Tim's list into more of my own words.
1. They know they can't be an expert about everything, and don't try. It's okay to reach out to others who know more about something than me.
2. They don't care about looking like a winner. It's too exhausting. They have better things to do than making sure everyone knows how smart they are.
3. They ask more questions than they give out answers. No one has all the answers. If you are talking, you aren't learning. Better to ask questions and see where the conversations lead.
4. They give the credit to others. By staying out of the spotlight they can attract more good folk into their lives.
5. They can make fun of themselves. They don't take everything so seriously. Helps break the attention.
6. They don't flaunt their success. All the numbers - followers, bank accounts, degrees, etc don't matter as much as the feeling they receive from working to make something good happen again.
7. They dress normally. Not super fancy, but not like a bum. They blend in - because they don't want to stand out.
8. They don't do media, because Fame can be a nightmare. They like peace and quiet, time with friends and family.
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